Not to mention, the situation between you and him are likely wildly different. Even if you were of same age at the time of mother’s passing, sex (or even gender, ‘cose why not), living in same country and held even similar status in society. Still there is a lot wiggle room to go around. And I think even number of those don’t match.

We are different people and take things differently. But makes no difference that having lost a dear person at the prime of your life can affect a person in way that makes them more inclined to see people complaining about things while they are still actually alive as something less against having already lost.

Sorry to hear of your loss regardless, even if time has healed it a bunch already, I’m reading.