We like to write our characters sassy, but a lot of them don’t fit that mold on a regular basis. There are only a few that are completely incapable, but with folks like Fr’Nj, you can only do sass in special, limited circumstances.

Fr’Nj’s concern for her sister and genuine irritation as Syr’Nj ignored two-thirds of her advice opened the door to a few sassy remarks (doctors, it bears repeating, make the worst patients). But it turns out that sass was a clue to something else going on with her.

Her issue has no easy answer. If she hadn’t fought, her sister would be dead, and there’s no way to predict whether another situation like that might emerge. But just becoming another Peacemaker, fighting as they fight, means turning her back on her life’s dream, a fair chunk of her culture, and maybe even the connection with nature that makes her strategically valuable in the first place.